They're taken...

Why is it that some people only like someone once they're in a relationship? Like...why would you want someone who's in a relationship anyway?! If they leave them for you what makes you think they won't do the same to you once someone else "suddenly discovers that they've longed for them"...also? Why is it that some people grow balls, so to speak, once what they claim to want is...taken? That doesn't quite make sense to me. If anything what you're in all actuality feeling is a mild case of jealously, possibly even bitterness for not saying something first. Maybe you feel like a "looser" but instead you want to play mind games with someone you consider a friend or your ex because they've either moved on or never saw you in the light of which you see. Reality is...everything happens for a reason, yes, but your mouth being faulty teaches what? 

I find it interesting that people won't or wouldn't get a twitter acct bc they didn't want to have stalkers...BUT have four square. Like...you're telling everyone EXACTLY where you are with that app alone but you didn't want a twitter bc you could opt not to?! Oh ok.