"If it's meant to be, it'll be" ...while I agree with that quote I feel as if it's not that simple. If you live by that, that's fine but unless you're working to maintain "it," whatever "it" is shall have an expiration date. Or maybe you're only meant to have "it" for a season vs a lifetime. Ultimately anything you want rarely will just be handed to you and if you're lucky enough to have it fall in your hands, don't let go. Grasp "it," cherish "it," let "it" know you're blessed to hold such an amazing thing. "It" is like a seed, it needs adequate soil, enough fertilization, water, sunlight, and love to grow. Why people think because something's theirs that'll always be the case sits beside me.